A 31-year-old woman shared her story on Reddit about being mistreated by her family her whole life. Her older sister, Mary, was favored, while she struggled with health issues, frequent hospitalizations, and being labeled a financial burden. Her parents never intervened when Mary bullied her. After leaving for college, OP built a life with her supportive husband, Greg, while staying distant from her family.
Years later, OP returned home to care for her sick grandfather, and her family began acting kind toward her. However, at a family dinner, her sister asked her to be a surrogate after discovering she was infertile. OP, advised by doctors against having more children due to her previous high-risk pregnancy, declined. Her sister cried, and her parents accused OP of being selfish. Despite their pressure, OP stuck to her decision and questioned if she was wrong. Reddit users strongly supported her, encouraging her to prioritize her health and distance herself from a family that never respected her.